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Love on the Rocks: Learning the Love Gems

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Does your love life resemble a blank slate? Are you in love, but it’s on the rocks? No need to feel jaded! According to the ancient tradition of gem therapy, there are stones you can turn to that may be able to help get you back on the road to romance.

Despite the mystical atmosphere surrounding these gems and their powers, experts say that they are not intended for such drastic uses as love spells or potions (as convenient as that might seem!)…rather, these stones are meant to enable and encourage you to become the best “you” that you can be, and consequently, can encourage and create an environment in which love can more easily happen. In fact, the number one attribute that most of these stones seem to share is their ability to promote “self love,” or the love of oneself, which is arguably the most satisfying love of all!

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“Do you need company” rose quartz necklace by Eve Alfillé. Photo credit: Matt Arden.

Many gemstones do, however, possess certain specialities when it comes to the romantic arts. Perhaps the stone most well-known for being a “love gem” is Rose Quartz, a delicately-hued pink stone that has been said to be the stone of unconditional love. This stone promotes within the wearer a greater sense of self-worth, and as such, may be a  well-employed accessory for those who wish to bolster confidence, both romantically and otherwise, throughout the day. If a splash of rose-colored jewelry doesn’t do it for you, experts recommend either placing the stone beneath your pillow at night or tucking a piece into each corner of your room.

ChakraOpeningAre you feeling downright down-on-your luck when it comes to love? Try Malachite! This striped green stone is known for its ability to charm away the bad feelings of a broken heart, and to clear the way for future possibilities. You may want to try sleeping with this stone placed over your heart chakra, which is located in the very center of your chest and is represented by
the color green.

Moonstone, the lusty evening stone, said by some to be made of moonbeams, is among the saucier love gems that you might find. Give your love a moonstone on the night of a full moon, and you may find that you will always have a mutual passion for one another. Throw a sunstone into the mix, and the resulting sparks are supposed to fly even higher, as this is meant to amplify the sexual energy and mutual attraction caused by a moonstone alone.

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“From every fruit you taste,” a moonstone bracelet with central sunstone, by Eve Alfillé. Photo credit: Matt Arden.

It can be fun to experiment with mixing and matching your stones: if you want to kick your love life up a notch, combine rose quartz and moldovite to create a power house in your heart chakra! If you find that the effects of your rose quartz are overpowering and you are simply loving everything TOO MUCH, add some amethyst to tone it down! And, of course, any jewelry combination you should choose (whether given as a gift, or maybe given as a SELF-gift) which makes you feel beautiful, can be considered a resounding success. So go on and treat yourself, because: you rock!

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